Bernice Cottman

Bernice H. Cottman (Holly)

1929 - 2019
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Bernice Blondell Holly Cottman, was the youngest of 12 children from the union of Isaac M. Holly, Sr. and Nellie Ariminty Holly (nee Demby). Bernice departed this life in the early hours of Saturday, November 16, 2019.

Bernice was born in Magnolia (Edgewood), Maryland and attended McComas Institute in Joppa, MD for her early education. Bernice was the first of her family to attend college. She received a Bachelor of Science degree in Elementary Education from Bowie State Teachers College (now Bowie State University), and a Masters of Science in Education (K-12 Special Education) from Coppin State Teachers College (now Coppin State University). Her postgraduate work included courses at Loyola College, Coppin State Teachers College, Towson College and Hofstra Universities.

She enjoyed volunteer work including community projects and tutoring. She was a long time member, and one of the founding members of the Freya Club, a social club and charitable organization.

Bernice taught art for 15 years at Central Consolidated School. After that she taught Special Education at Hickory Elementary School for 24 years. The building where Central Consolidated School was housed became Hickory Elementary School—39 years, same location! She was a dedicated teacher who enjoyed working with children, especially those with special needs. After retiring from teaching Bernice worked as a tutor for several years at the Huntington Learning Center in Perry Hall, Maryland.

Bernice served as a board member of the organization that previously owned McComas Institute. She contributed historical documents and information to the current restorators, the Hosana School board. Her hobbies included planting flowers, shopping, traveling, and cooking in addition to crafts, specifically sewing, making hats, and working with silk flowers. She assisted in wedding planning for various family members and was a financial advisor, attorney, and teacher to many of her friends and family. She collected many decorative bells during her travels, and had an abundant collection of seashells. Bernice’s joy of life however was her large and extended family, and most importantly her Granddaughters who affectionately called her Gran or Grammy.

Bernice was preceeded in death by her parents, Isaac Sr. and Nellie, six brothers: Isaac Jr., Ellwood, Alexander(Alec), George, Allen, Francis, and four sisters: Annie, Sadie, Mary, and Vivian.

She is survived by her loving sister Joann Holly; her daughter Yolanda Pamela Oliver Jefferson; granddaughters: (Bernice) Tiffanni Reidy (Michael), (Lloyce) Jessica, (Aimee) Jordan; her god-daughters: Andrea Eley and Erin Engen, and her pride and joy—a great-granddaughter Autumn Frederick Reidy, born on Bernice’s 87th birthday. She also leaves to mourn many, many nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews, and a host of other relatives and family friends.
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Service Details

  • Visitation

    Friday, November 22nd, 2019 | 10:00am - 12:00pm
    Friday, November 22nd, 2019 10:00am - 12:00pm
    Word of Faith International Ministries
    1301 Loflin Road
    Aberdeen, MD 21001
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  • Service

    Friday, November 22nd, 2019 | 12:00pm
    Friday, November 22nd, 2019 12:00pm
    Word of Faith International Ministries
    1301 Loflin Road
    Aberdeen, MD 21001
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  • Interment

    Mt. Zion United Methodist Cemetery
    1915 Singer Road
    Joppa, MD 21085
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